Zero to Five covers what you care about
- more sleep!
- hitting, biting, not sharing, defiance, not listening (without shaming or escalating)
- how much screen time is too much
- feeding without bribes and rewards
- what's most important for brain development
- fostering a growth mindset, creativity, and resilience
- for couples, keeping it real
- responding to big emotions
- actual situations that reflect the messiness of real life
- ...and much, much more.
These are the things I wanted to know. I'd edited the bestselling brain-development books Brain Rules and Brain Rules for Baby, but sitting there in the moment with my daughter, I had questions. Mainly:
"How, exactly?"
As a perfectionist, I set to work. I gathered up findings from scientists and experts like Alison Gopnik, Adele Diamond, Carol Dweck, Dan Siegel, Diana Baumrind, Jane Nelsen, John Gottman, Sandy Blackard, Patricia Kuhl, and other names you might know.
Without an attachment to any one parenting style, only to the best long-term outcomes, I looked at the intersections of attachment parenting, positive discipline, conscious parenting, behavior modification, natural consequences, logical consequences, and brain development.
And then I wrote as I went. As a parent -- as we all do -- I tried stuff. I wrote down personal stories that show how the research might play out in the much messier real world.
And I put it all in a beautiful book that you can easily flip open, scan, and immediately get something out of. I wanted to give you and your little one a great start.
I want this!
(instant download)
Also available in hardcover, paperback, audiobook, and Spanish
What parents say
"Brilliant, practical resource that bolsters my parenting confidence." -- Kate M.
"Tracy Cutchlow's writing style makes you feel like you're having a cup of coffee with the best friend you can imagine: someone who gets you, believes in you, and has a great sense of humor. She gives you so much hope and such practical tips, all in a format that's super easy to access and read." -- L.A. Garner
"This is easily the most worthwhile parenting book I have purchased thus far." -- David T.
What pros say
"I have worked in childcare for 12 years and now have two children of my own. I have done the parent support groups, parent ed though a co-op preschool and taken many, many, trainings on child development. This book sums up all those classes/lectures/groups into one!!!" -- A.
Zero to Five is used by pediatricians. Parent educators. Parenting support groups. Childcare providers. Home visitors. Childbirth-class teachers. Graduate students in child development. Early-learning advocates. Family therapists and psychologists. They say:
- "The best I've seen in a long time."
- "My go-to source."
- "Your book is a big part of my practice."
- "I recommend it all the time."
Cool uses for Zero to Five by cool people
Some of the wonderful stories I've heard from groups who placed bulk orders:
PEDIATRICIANS
Private-practice pediatricians in Oregon, part of the Children's Health Alliance, gave Zero to Five to each new family. They're on a mission to prevent ACES and help families develop resiliency from the start.
More than 3,000 pediatricians across the country have a copy of Zero to Five for their exam rooms.
MILITARY BASES
Ft. Bragg gifted copies of the book to hundreds of new families as part of a huge baby shower.
CHILD CARE PROVIDERS
One childcare center gave a copy of Zero to Five to each family on its waiting list, with this wonderful note:
Thank you for your interest in Fruit & Flower Child Development Center. Please accept this book as an expression of our commitment to support all families in our community who are navigating these very important early years. We hope the information and resources in this book complement your parenting skills and help both you and your children thrive.
TRAINERS OF CHILD CARE PROVIDERS
Child Care Aware of Kansas developed training sessions based on the book.
HOME VISITORS
The Nebraska Maternal Infant Early Childhood Home Visiting Program, at its annual conference, gave the book to 400 attendees in their registration bags. Twice.
COMMUNITY COALITIONS
A Chamber of Commerce raised money to give Zero to Five to new parents who give birth at a local hospital. Welcome, baby! They also sold the book as a fundraiser for a new community fund. Move over, Girl Scout Cookies?
A coalition near Atlanta, aiming to end generational poverty in its community, works through the book with parents to help ensure every child is ready for kindergarten.
PARENTING EDUCATORS & FAMILY THERAPISTS
"Our childbirth teacher told our class that we have to buy your book," some parents told me at a baby expo.
PARENT SUPPORT GROUPS
PEPS facilitates neighborhood-based support groups for 12 weeks of intimate discussion. Group leaders use Zero to Five for a 5-minute "brain-building moment." (Contact PEPS to license its model.)
And, of course, PARENTS!
See their reviews on Amazon and Goodreads.
My favorite story: Because the hardcover has a hidden spiral binding, it opens flat. There's just one tip per page, with bite-size chunks of texts, so it's easy to scan. The size of the book and its full-color photographs make it hard to miss. One mama left the book open on the counter to a page she wanted to discuss with her partner -- and it worked. ;-)
If you've read this far, there's only one thing to do:
I want this!
(instant download)
Also available in hardcover, paperback, and audiobook, and Spanish